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		<title>By: Dorothy</title>
		<link>http://dorothysliwicki.com/ask-dorothy-only-time-will-tell/#comment-2394</link>
		<dc:creator>Dorothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2012 18:51:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Natasha, 
Honestly, I think they went with someone else. If they really wanted you they would have communicated with you more. I think you were probably the runner up which means that they did love you so if your dream job is posted again you should definitely apply. At this point I would continue to contact HR and ask them for a response so at least you can have closure. Hope that helps.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Natasha,<br />
Honestly, I think they went with someone else. If they really wanted you they would have communicated with you more. I think you were probably the runner up which means that they did love you so if your dream job is posted again you should definitely apply. At this point I would continue to contact HR and ask them for a response so at least you can have closure. Hope that helps.</p>
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		<title>By: natasha</title>
		<link>http://dorothysliwicki.com/ask-dorothy-only-time-will-tell/#comment-2226</link>
		<dc:creator>natasha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2012 06:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Dorothy,

I need your advice, I have given this interview 3 weeks back which lasted for 45 mins, after interview same day I was asked to fill n send the background check forms, then 3 days later I got call for HR who told me my interview was good n she wanted to discuss some duties and responsibilities as hiring manager wanted to make sure that I should be aware of this n should not have any problem in performing these duties n responsibilities &amp; I said yes for everything, now its 3 weeks completed n I didnt got any mail/call for HR, also wen i inquired 1 week back, she did reply n said, she wil check with the hiring managers n get back as soon as she has any update....I can also see the job posting has been taken out from the job site...m very worried now, as this was my dream job...what do you think, Is there still some hope left ?or should I accept the fact that I didnt got the job...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dorothy,</p>
<p>I need your advice, I have given this interview 3 weeks back which lasted for 45 mins, after interview same day I was asked to fill n send the background check forms, then 3 days later I got call for HR who told me my interview was good n she wanted to discuss some duties and responsibilities as hiring manager wanted to make sure that I should be aware of this n should not have any problem in performing these duties n responsibilities &amp; I said yes for everything, now its 3 weeks completed n I didnt got any mail/call for HR, also wen i inquired 1 week back, she did reply n said, she wil check with the hiring managers n get back as soon as she has any update&#8230;.I can also see the job posting has been taken out from the job site&#8230;m very worried now, as this was my dream job&#8230;what do you think, Is there still some hope left ?or should I accept the fact that I didnt got the job&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Dorothy</title>
		<link>http://dorothysliwicki.com/ask-dorothy-only-time-will-tell/#comment-2396</link>
		<dc:creator>Dorothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Aug 2012 21:16:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Mr. John,
I can&#039;t believe airline is making you wait this long. I don&#039;t see any excuse for this at all. They should at least tell you if there is hang up or not. During the interview did they tell you what their timeline was? Maybe they weren&#039;t thinking of filling this role quickly. I honestly don&#039;t know and it really makes me mad that Recruiter hasn&#039;t even gotten back you. I hope you hear from someone soon.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mr. John,<br />
I can&#8217;t believe airline is making you wait this long. I don&#8217;t see any excuse for this at all. They should at least tell you if there is hang up or not. During the interview did they tell you what their timeline was? Maybe they weren&#8217;t thinking of filling this role quickly. I honestly don&#8217;t know and it really makes me mad that Recruiter hasn&#8217;t even gotten back you. I hope you hear from someone soon.</p>
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		<title>By: Mr. John</title>
		<link>http://dorothysliwicki.com/ask-dorothy-only-time-will-tell/#comment-2220</link>
		<dc:creator>Mr. John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Aug 2012 21:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Dorothy,

I sure enjoy your blog-you offer some great insight.  I applied for a &quot;dream job&quot; with a very large airline, and was contacted about 7 weeks later for an interview.  I flew across the country and interviewed for 1.5 hours, and spend another 2 hours observing operations.  (This is a technical Flight Operations position).  I sent appropriate thank you emails to the 3 managers and senior employee that interviewed me.  2 1/2 weeks later I was contacted again and asked for my professional references.  I have heard nothing nor have my references been contacted (Submitted references one month ago today).  I have sent a few emails to the company HR/Recruiter and also left 2 voice mails but she will not respond.  I&#039;ve also emailed and left a voice mail for the Hiring Manager that called me, but nothing!  So frustrating to be treated like this.  I keep thinking that maybe there was just a hang-up, or some sort of delay, but am only met with disappointment!  Do you have any thoughts or ideas on what I might do from here besides the obvious answer (&quot;keep applying to other jobs&quot;).  Thanks so much!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dorothy,</p>
<p>I sure enjoy your blog-you offer some great insight.  I applied for a &#8220;dream job&#8221; with a very large airline, and was contacted about 7 weeks later for an interview.  I flew across the country and interviewed for 1.5 hours, and spend another 2 hours observing operations.  (This is a technical Flight Operations position).  I sent appropriate thank you emails to the 3 managers and senior employee that interviewed me.  2 1/2 weeks later I was contacted again and asked for my professional references.  I have heard nothing nor have my references been contacted (Submitted references one month ago today).  I have sent a few emails to the company HR/Recruiter and also left 2 voice mails but she will not respond.  I&#8217;ve also emailed and left a voice mail for the Hiring Manager that called me, but nothing!  So frustrating to be treated like this.  I keep thinking that maybe there was just a hang-up, or some sort of delay, but am only met with disappointment!  Do you have any thoughts or ideas on what I might do from here besides the obvious answer (&#8220;keep applying to other jobs&#8221;).  Thanks so much!</p>
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		<title>By: maxie97</title>
		<link>http://dorothysliwicki.com/ask-dorothy-only-time-will-tell/#comment-2167</link>
		<dc:creator>maxie97</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jun 2012 13:57:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Dorothy
I have been on a job 30 yrs in the union as CSR . Recently within my company there has been a few manangement jobs that have posted. My only experience with in the company is that of a CSR. I just furtherd my education and received a MBA I want to go further but I am 59 I left a very busy corporated office and now I am in a smaller office closed to home, 2 people and I am stress free to go on would be back in busy environment and  no protection of the union at this point no plans on retiring but I would like to retire at a hire pay rate. The new job I only have a little experiece but learn easily. I now that there are others with more experience than me. What are your thoughts.?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dorothy<br />
I have been on a job 30 yrs in the union as CSR . Recently within my company there has been a few manangement jobs that have posted. My only experience with in the company is that of a CSR. I just furtherd my education and received a MBA I want to go further but I am 59 I left a very busy corporated office and now I am in a smaller office closed to home, 2 people and I am stress free to go on would be back in busy environment and  no protection of the union at this point no plans on retiring but I would like to retire at a hire pay rate. The new job I only have a little experiece but learn easily. I now that there are others with more experience than me. What are your thoughts.?</p>
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		<title>By: Dorothy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dorothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2012 03:02:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Becky,
I honestly think most interviews are less than hour long and the fact that they requested to check your references is a GREAT thing. You&#039;re just getting excited and getting your hopes up, which is a good thing. Be patient and I&#039;m sure you will hear from someone soon. Oh and make sure you scan and use email rather than fax a document. It&#039;s much more professional. Hope that helps.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Becky,<br />
I honestly think most interviews are less than hour long and the fact that they requested to check your references is a GREAT thing. You&#8217;re just getting excited and getting your hopes up, which is a good thing. Be patient and I&#8217;m sure you will hear from someone soon. Oh and make sure you scan and use email rather than fax a document. It&#8217;s much more professional. Hope that helps.</p>
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		<title>By: Becky</title>
		<link>http://dorothysliwicki.com/ask-dorothy-only-time-will-tell/#comment-1978</link>
		<dc:creator>Becky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 21:28:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Dorothy,

I&#039;d like your input if you don&#039;t mind.  I had an interview for an HR position last Friday.  I thought the interview  went ok but they didn&#039;t show me around and the interview was only about 35 to 40 minutes long so I was pleasantly suprised when I got an email from the hiring manager on Monday telling me that she had already called one of my supervisors and wanted permission to speak to my current supervisor.  I emailed her back and told her that she could speak w/ my current supervisor and I also supplied my other references.  I haven&#039;t heard anything yet so now I&#039;m getting really nervous.  Do companies normally check multiple candidates&#039; references?  I sent a follow-up email yesterday stating that I was still interested in the position and that I just wanted to make sure she&#039;d been able to contact my references and that I could fax her my two previous performance appraisals if she needed them but I never heard back.  I&#039;m wondering if that&#039;s a bad sign.

Thanks]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dorothy,</p>
<p>I&#8217;d like your input if you don&#8217;t mind.  I had an interview for an HR position last Friday.  I thought the interview  went ok but they didn&#8217;t show me around and the interview was only about 35 to 40 minutes long so I was pleasantly suprised when I got an email from the hiring manager on Monday telling me that she had already called one of my supervisors and wanted permission to speak to my current supervisor.  I emailed her back and told her that she could speak w/ my current supervisor and I also supplied my other references.  I haven&#8217;t heard anything yet so now I&#8217;m getting really nervous.  Do companies normally check multiple candidates&#8217; references?  I sent a follow-up email yesterday stating that I was still interested in the position and that I just wanted to make sure she&#8217;d been able to contact my references and that I could fax her my two previous performance appraisals if she needed them but I never heard back.  I&#8217;m wondering if that&#8217;s a bad sign.</p>
<p>Thanks</p>
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		<title>By: Dorothy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dorothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2012 11:35:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Nick,
I would not decline the interview. Think of it as a challenge and since they said that speaking German was not required for the role then I would not be too worried and just give it your best try. Good Luck!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Nick,<br />
I would not decline the interview. Think of it as a challenge and since they said that speaking German was not required for the role then I would not be too worried and just give it your best try. Good Luck!</p>
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		<title>By: Nick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2012 08:42:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Dorothy! I need your thoughts. I have hust gotten to the second round but here I encountered a small surprise. The hiring manager wrote to me that the CEO wants to meet me in person (that was not supposed to happen in the first place) and that this interview would take place at a trade fair in a remote city (completely unexpected). In addition they want to conduct the interview in German (it is a German corporation) although German skills were not required for the role as was stated in the job description. At the previous interview though I was asked to speak some German even though I am not perfect at it. Should I just decline the invitation for the interview? Or is it a  indication of interest in me and I should give it a shot and try to do my best at the interview languagewise? Please, advise. Nick]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dorothy! I need your thoughts. I have hust gotten to the second round but here I encountered a small surprise. The hiring manager wrote to me that the CEO wants to meet me in person (that was not supposed to happen in the first place) and that this interview would take place at a trade fair in a remote city (completely unexpected). In addition they want to conduct the interview in German (it is a German corporation) although German skills were not required for the role as was stated in the job description. At the previous interview though I was asked to speak some German even though I am not perfect at it. Should I just decline the invitation for the interview? Or is it a  indication of interest in me and I should give it a shot and try to do my best at the interview languagewise? Please, advise. Nick</p>
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		<title>By: Dorothy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dorothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 16:37:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Cindy,
I know looking for a job can be frustrating but you need to have faith. You need to have a positive attitude about the process. It sounds like you have some great experience and you shouldn&#039;t use your age as an excuse. I know that ageism does exist but I find that many times it has nothing to do with age and everything to do with attitude.  When you are searching for a job your references need to know that for the next few months since they agreed to be your references that their contact information will be provided in hopes that you get a job. I don&#039;t understand why they care when or to who their information is given out to. They should be positive people in your life who are trying to encourage you and help you as much as they can to find a job.  It also definitely does help to know somebody in a company where you would like to work. This is why LinkedIn is a great tool.  It can connect you to so many people that you might have not thought of who could help you get your next job.  So be positive and confident. Those are traits that employers want in an applicant. Good Luck! and thanks for the post idea.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Cindy,<br />
I know looking for a job can be frustrating but you need to have faith. You need to have a positive attitude about the process. It sounds like you have some great experience and you shouldn&#8217;t use your age as an excuse. I know that ageism does exist but I find that many times it has nothing to do with age and everything to do with attitude.  When you are searching for a job your references need to know that for the next few months since they agreed to be your references that their contact information will be provided in hopes that you get a job. I don&#8217;t understand why they care when or to who their information is given out to. They should be positive people in your life who are trying to encourage you and help you as much as they can to find a job.  It also definitely does help to know somebody in a company where you would like to work. This is why LinkedIn is a great tool.  It can connect you to so many people that you might have not thought of who could help you get your next job.  So be positive and confident. Those are traits that employers want in an applicant. Good Luck! and thanks for the post idea.</p>
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